LIDIA

NAMAIR

AEIRESS

AEIRESS

YAEL

IMPERIAL

IMPERIAL

Well,

There is to be a visit tomorrow but guess what the time is different and jay has to work so i have to deal with these people alone and I dont want to. the lady says that she is to get the boys for the weekend and noone knows where she got that idea from as she is to have a visit for the little girl at a mutual time thats good for us as well and we are supposed to supervise the visit so now she is mad because of what the social worker said. This is crazy this lady is crazy im so sick of this crap. I have no problem with them seeing their sister but this lady is just unbearable...... I guess I will start with some back ground on each of the kids I will start with lidia.

Lidia is 15 yrs old and her son is 1 yrs old his name is nasir. lidia is a pretty good kids she has her of course issues but other than that she is a good kid. She came into care because of a fight between her and her mother and sister who tried to take her baby and she fought them. Now her mother treated her badly emotionally and physically abused her. Her father would get drunk and touch her. So after the fight her mother told the cops that lidia was violent and things so they took her and she came into care. Once in care she was moved to a couple of homes mainly because noone wanted a girl with a baby. So she gave the baby to the father and then some girls in the home she was in bleached all of her things. They called us and asked if we would take her. At first I was hesitant because im like im only 24 what can i tell this girl and will she listen to me.. But in the end jay i decided to take her because we didnt want to wonder what if and wonder what happen to her later . It was a good decision even though she has put us thro some things we love her and she is apart of our family, as is her son. I found out that she cuts and has done so lately so I told her either she could tell the worker or I would and after some coaching she did and is now going to be going to therapy. Her mom moved to kansas and lidia is going to visit her for spring break via court order. We are not adopting lidia we are doing PLC which is like adoption in our state It means we are her permenant guardians and have physical and legal custody of her. That hearing is in June. We go back to court for the boys in june as well.... for more BS I am sure.